A divorce might be one of the worst levels of lifestyles that someone can pass through.
A divorce not only brings about the loss of an important person in one's life but also triggers off a myriad of negative emotions like insecurity, rejection, anger, grief, unworthiness etc.
Well life doesn't stop after a divorce and a major part of surviving a divorce is getting over these feelings of negativity. Friends and family are considered to be the best balm for your aching wounds. They can provide solace and support in a way that is totally unexpected that it really changes you.
A divorce is the end of a marriage, not life. Know your worth and always believe in yourself. If you have a child make the child understand why all this is happening. This is as confusing for your child as it is for you. If they seek reassurance make sure that you are around to provide it.
Do things that you did back when you were single. Catch up on your life and discover in yourself an entirely different person who is vaguely familiar; the real you. Indulge in your hobbies. If you weren't working when you were married, get a job.
Start living again. It is hard to pick up the pieces and glue it together again; but always remember that the task is not impossible.
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