If you really want to unleash your own magical powers, learning how to write your own incantations is the best way. The difference between an incantation and a spell is this: an incantation is the words that are spoken when a spell is being cast. The spell involves the ritual or tools that you use with the incantation.
It's the words that give the spell its power, the glue that holds the spell together and whisks it out into the universe. The universe vibrates with every word that is spoken, and that carefully chosen words used in a spell can change one's reality.
You should always use extreme care in choosing your words for an incantation. Take some time selecting the exact words you want. Use a thesaurus or dictionary to get ideas. Don't forget that you should always be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it!
An incantation should read like a poem or rhyme and be at least 4 lines long. Short and to the point usually works best, but say what you feel you must. Incantations should flow like a song. You will know you have it right when you can feel the words in your heart and soul.
The most important thing to remember when writing an incantation or casting a spell is INTENT! This cannot be stressed enough. Intent is what separates white magic from black magic, good from evil, right from wrong.
Do not have an intent that takes away another person's free will. If you are looking for love, you want the person to be with you because they want to be, not because they are trapped under a spell. That is not love.
Once you have written your incantation, sit in a comfortable position and either chant or sing the incantation three times until you find the combination of notes and tone that are pleasing to your ear.
Then repeat the incantation three more times. Always repeat any incantation in groups of three. After awhile you should begin to feel a sense of peace and well-being resonates throughout your body.
Take your time writing the incantations for a love spell, or any other type of spell. Make sure you are asking for exactly what you want. The universe has a sense of humor and has been known to take words literally, not figuratively, so exercise caution.
Most love spells contain powerful magic, and should not be misused or abused. Only cast a love spell if you are in a calm, relaxed and positive state of mind. If you are upset, desperate, or feeling needy this is not the time to be casting a spell. Feelings of desperation, upset, and neediness are all negative emotions and will be reflected in your spell. This could cause some rather nasty results, so always make sure your intent is pure, and your mood is upbeat.